Push pull theory can be applied to many facets of life. It’s applicable to both the business world and the dating world. In the dating world its used as a method to generate attraction while simultaneously getting past a women’s “bitch shield”.
An easy way to explain push pull theory is: 2 steps forward & 1 step back. An example of push pulling is teasing a women and joking that your “together” and a few seconds later breaking up (over and over until she shit tests you).
What push pull theory does for you is it engages the girl sexually, and then disengages her sexually. This is very different than constantly pulling the girl towards you. Every time you push her away you actually create more attraction (within reason don’t push pull her 10 times in a row).
By using push pull theory you get her emotions going and then push her away before she has a chance to put her guard up. As a result we pull her in and push her away before she can resist. The general rule of thumb is to keep push/pulling until she shit tests you. If you aren’t familiar with shit tests you can check out my post which covers them in detail by clicking: push pull theory.
The idea of push pull theory is to generate attraction in women and make the women you desire to view you as alpha and sex worthy. As a result she’ll view you as the prize that she has to win over.
Here is another example of push pull theory:
- Grab a women by the hand and say, “You have a beautiful smile it makes me want to smile as well” She’ll respond with something like, “Thank you!” Wait a few seconds and reply, “I’ve seen a lot of other girls in this club with gorgeous smiles to. You have the 3rd best smile her your new nickname is number 3.” Push her hand away after saying that. Most of the time she’ll say, “No I have the best smile” You reply , “Okay, I’ll tell you what you can be number 2 for being feisty.”
- When talking to a girl, smile, hug her and tell her she’s girlfriend material. Then you say something like I need a girlfriend who’s an awesome cook! Can you cook? You can’t? Ok were broken up now.
- You have a very good sense of style. Your really cute. Your my new girlfriend for the next 30 minutes. BUT WAIT, you’ld max out all my credit cards. There’s no way we’d work out, were broken up now.
Every time you use push pull theory you’re generating a sexual and emotional reaction with the women. She is going to desire you and chase you.. If you do this in a playful way you’ll almost always get a positive response.
Try out push pull theory for yourself in the field, its going to take some practice. Remember to keep the interaction playful and let the women sense that your doing all this in a fun and social way.
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