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How to get a girlfriend

It is unfortunate that many men still do not know how to get a girlfriend, especially in a world where many tools have made it easier for to make friends and get a girlfriend of your dream. Getting a girlfriend is not really a skill, but involves certain actions that a man must take, or else he will forever be alone. Getting a girl is not a skill that you will be taught at school because it is seen as a natural act of every man or something that is learned as you mingle with your friends.

If you would like to know how to get a girlfriend, these are some tips for you:

• Sign up on a dating website – This is one of the easiest ways of getting a girlfriend today. Dating websites will show you the profiles of different ladies interested in having a relationship. That is a good way of getting a girlfriend. Social networking sites like Facebook or Orkut also provide opportunities for meeting new people and get a girlfriend.
• Impress her family and friends – This is another way to get a girlfriend. A lady will be happy with you if you pay attention to her family members and friends. Impressing them while being friends will easily make both of you to become lovers. Therefore, as a friend, you should always look for opportunities to meet those important people of her life.
• Be open – Let her know what is there for her if she becomes your girlfriend. Let her know that you want to care for her, and that you are not just interested in sex.
• Ask her out - Another good way to get a girlfriend is to ask the lady out. Decent ladies are interested in a genuine guy. Therefore, from time to time, you should ask her out for a lunch or coffee, or let her enjoy some other interests you both share. If she loves watching movies, take her to the cinema. If she loves going for a walk, do that with her.
• Compliment her – Make good comments on the good things about her. Every lady loves that. Do not be blind to those things. A girl will always be interested in having as a boyfriend that guy who appreciates her.
• Be gentle with her – Do not be aggressive with her, and do not let her see you as an aggressive person. You need to give her space, and not make her to feel uncomfortable by your presence. Being gentle with her also means giving her the freedom to mingle with whomever she wishes. Do not be possessive, as that will disqualify you from being her boyfriend.

To be successful with how to get a girlfriend, you need to expand your horizons when searching. Do not put all your eggs into one basket, as the lady you thought would be your girlfriend could be in a relationship already. Of course, the first person with whom you discuss might not be your girlfriend at the end of the day. Therefore, you need to keep trying until you come across the right person.

Cheers,

bigP

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How to finger a girl

It is important for a man to learn how to finger a girl because it is one of the things that makes your woman to experience maximum sexual pleasure when having sex together. Knowing how to finger a girl correctly makes both partners to have a great sense of satisfaction.

Before looking at the steps in how to finger a girl, there are certain things you need to know. The first one is that you should only start the process when your girl is already lubricated and aroused. Shoving your fingers in her vagina and rubbing her clitoris without being lubricated and aroused will only cause her pain and no pleasure will be experienced.

STEP BY STEP EXCLUSIVE DETAILED VIDEO SHOWING EXACTLY HOW TO FINGER A GIRL – MUST WATCH

NOW THE STEP BY STEP ARTICLE ON HOW TO FINGER A GIRL

If you want to know how to finger a girl, these are the important steps that should be taken:

Step 1 – Use your palm to massage her mound. To start with, let her ride your palms gently.

Step 2 – Put little lubricant in your fingertip and trace the outer of your girl’s vagina to determine how wet she is. Touch her clitoris and the opening gently. At first, you should start very slow, and then gradually move sideways or up and down.

Step 3 – This is the key part of how to finger a girl. After getting excited, gently put your finger into her vagina. Deeply insert the finger, and if you know her G spot, use a smooth or regular circular motion to rub. Then, you should introduce the finger intercourse, with your finger moving in and out of the vagina, while massaging her clitoris with the thumb of the same hand.

Step 4 – The pleasure derived from the experience will make her breathing to change, and you will feel the muscles of her vagina flexing against the movements of your hand. Pushing your fingers against her thrusts will help in building her orgasm, and you should use the same rhythm to continue to stimulate her. The rhythm is key when learning how to finger a girl because you want to give her the orgasm, and even if she begins to groan or moan and scream, you should not stop the rhythmic stimulation.

There are many techniques on how to finger a girl, but these steps should help your girl enjoy the act. You should also be aware that every woman love to be stimulated, the way your finger caresses her wet pussy would make a difference in the way your woman responds.

These are some other useful tips on how to finger a girl:

• In order not to hurt your girl, make sure your nails are cut and are not sharp.
• Some girls do not like to be fingered. Therefore, if your girl is new with you, you should ask her first. If you do not know how to ask, you may insert the tip of your finer into her vagina, and watch her reaction. That is going to tell you whether or not to proceed.

Knowing how to finger a girl makes you the ultimate lover for every woman. Most women even do that when the man is not around, and if you are unable to satisfy her with your finger, she is likely to consider you an amateur, and may lead to the end of the relationship.

Cheers,

James Dean

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How to make a girl squirt

Every guy I talk to that hears I know how to make a girl squirt wants to learn the secret. Every women has the ability to squirt in this post I am going to show you exactly how to make a girl squirt. I interviewed sex guru Troy Mitchell author of Making women orgasm for this post. He provided me with a lot of great insight on the topic and I’m very grateful to have his expertise go into this post.

Now On To The In Dept Article On How To Make A Girl Squirt

Since the vast majority of women have not squirted during an orgasm before, your best bet is to follow this guide on how to make a girl squirt.  The first thing you need to do is have her very aroused and stimulated before she will be able to squirt. Once that is done, it is partially up to her to let herself release the muscles holding the fluid back. Tell her to relax and ensure that it’s vaginal fluid that is going to be released not urin.  You can try to talk to her to help her feel more comfortable with it, but ultimately, she is going to have to relax enough to accomplish this in her own mind. This is the first key in learning how to make a girl squirt.

The first second as to how to make a girl squirt is stimulating her. Stimulating a woman doesn’t have to be difficult, in fact most women can orgasm pretty easily if you know what your doing.  Your goal in learning how to make a girl squirt, is going to be to get her so horny that when she is ready to have an orgasm, it can be powerful enough to make her squirt.  The best way to do this is to rub her g-spot, which is just inside the roof of her vagina.  Using a come hither motion and a steady pace you can help her achieve climax.

STEP BY STEP EXCLUSIVE DETAILED VIDEO SHOWING EXACTLY HOW TO MAKE A GIRL SQUIT – MUST WATCH

You can also make her squirt by giving her an orgasm with your penis, as long as she is able to let go, and not be concerned with getting urine on you, and she is in a position which lets her get the maximum effect of the rubbing inside her vagina.

The most important part of how to make a girl squirt would be to make sure that she is comfortable in her head with squirting.  Let her know that it isn’t urine that would be coming out, but the same juices that lubricate her vagina naturally when she is aroused.  All it would be is a concentration of those juices that would be released in one mighty eruption.  This will hopefully put her mind at ease and allow her to ejaculate without much trouble.  After she has done it once, it will be a lot easier for her to do again, especially if you use the same techniques in order to do it the second time, and regularly after that.  This is one of the keys to success on how to make a girl squirt. Of course it never hurts to try out something a little different, especially when she is up for it, but you can rest assured that after doing it once, she will probably want to do it again.

As long as the girl you are with gets horny to the point that she can orgasm, these tips on how to make a girl squirt will work, but she may need to be taught or guided to make sure that she is able to achieve a squirting orgasm without much of a problem. If you are able to do this, chances are, you are going to get the pleasure of knowing that you taught her something new, a fact that she may very well tell her friends. Thats all you now know how to make a girl squirt!

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Thank you for checking out my article on how to make a girl squirt if you have a questions please comment below!

Cheers,

bigP

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Hey Guys,

I wanted to share a few things with you as we get close to the end of 2011.

First of all, I hope you all have a great New Years Eve, for everyone who has been working hard to accomplish their goals, its time to enjoy your self and go wild!  Really make this one a NYE to remember.

Also I hope your all looking forward to a new year, and continue to strive for Greatness and push your self “NEVER STOP UNTIL YOUR GOOD BECOMES BETTER AND YOUR BETTER BECOMES THE BEST”

I hope all of you are setting some great goals for the New Year and are ready to work hard to accomplish them!  It’s such a rewarding feeling when you do, and I know all of you can and will accomplish your goals as long as you have belief and put in the work.

I want each of you to set minimum 10 goals for the new year!  They can be related to relationships, work, exercise, adventure, passions and so forth but set GOALS!  Believe me it will pay off!

I want to leave you guys with a this quote,

SOW A THOUGHT AND YOU REAP AN ACT

SOW AND ACT AND YOU REAP A HABIT

SOW A HABIT AND YOU REAP A CHARACTER

SOW A CHARACTER AND YOU REAP A DESTINY

Ralph Waldo Emerson

This is a great quote, are you guys sowing the thoughts, acts and habits today that will create your character and ultimately your destiny tomorrow?

I want you guys to evaluate your self and come the New Year, be ready to make your goals and dreams a reality!

All the Best

The Godfather

Alpha Lifestyle – Live the life of your dreams

Hey Guys,

I want to talk to you about Perseverance.  Below is a timeline of a very famous and well known individual who achieve great things throughout his life, the timeline below shows the adversity which he overcame throughout his life.

Age 7                Worked to support family after they were forced out of their home

Age 9                Mother died

Age 22             Failed in business

Age 23             Defeated in legislature and could not get into law school

Age 24            Declared Bankruptcy and spend 17 years paying off debts owed to friends

Age 25            Defeated in legislature again

Age 26            While engaged to be married sweetheart died and heart was broken

Age 27            Had a nervous breakdown and spent the next 6 months in bed

Age 29            Defeated in becoming the speaker of the state legislature

Age 31            Defeated in becoming elector

Age 34            Defeated for congress

Age 37            Defeated for congress again

Age 39            Defeated for congress yet again

Age 40            Rejected for the job of land officer in home state

Age 45            Defeated for Senate

Age 47            Defeated for Vice President – got less than 100 votes

Age 49            Defeated for Senate again

Age 51            ELECTED PRESITEND OF THE UNITED STATES

Who is this?

ABRAHAM LINCOLN

I know when I first read this I was shocked not only at all the success that Lincoln had achieved but by the amount of adversity that he overcame throughout his life.

“MY GREATEST CONCERN IS NOT WHETHER YOU HAVE FAILED, BUT WHETHER YOU ARE CONTENT WITH YOUR FAILURE.” - Abraham Lincoln

I always enjoy reading biographies and accounts of people throughout history who have achieved greatness.  There is much to learn from them and Lincoln is no different.  His perseverance is a testament that if you have belief in yourself, never give up and work hard you will be successful and accomplish your dreams!

Sir Winston Churchill famously said, “When you are going through hell, keep going”

What this means is to persevere, to never give up, to continue going until the job is done (whatever dream or goal you have).

When I am reading anything I am consciously making an effort to see if there is any lesson that I can impart from it.

What really jumped out at me from these pages was the idea of PERSEVERANCE.

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN, PERSEVERANCE?

PER. SE. VER. ANCE – Steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, especially in spite of difficulties, obstacles or discouragement.

Perseverance is a constant theme among those who have achieved success, and especially among those who have achieved great success.  It’s that stick-to-itiveness; not quitting when the road gets tough that ultimately makes the biggest difference in their lives.

I want to make one thing clear, perseverance does not mean trying the same approach every time until you get the desired outcome. What it means is keeping the desired outcome in mind and changing the approach until you achieve your outcome.

The difference here is that, perseverance is also about being able to adapt around obstacles to achieve your outcome.  And this is a huge point to understand.

Below is a video which I came across a while back but really sums up what I have been talking about in this article.  The Rocky story really embodies perseverance, tenacity, and having belief in your dream and seeing it through to is achievement.

Click here to view the video on YouTube.

I hope everyone really understands the importance of this lesson,

“going in one more round when you do not think you can, will make the difference in your life.” – Rocky Balboa

The Godfather

This is a quick post to share with you one characteristic that all leaders possess. That is the ability to make others feel good and bring out the best in others.

I was having an interesting conversation with The Godfather the other day and we were talking about putting other people down. All high value people with self confidence don’t ever feel the need to put someone else down. The act of putting someone else down stems from a lack of inner self confidence. The people who criticize others the most are always the ones who are least happy and don’t like themselves.

Think about it, the only reason people talk badly, put down, or criticize others is to boost their own ego due to a lack of self confidence. The sign of a “little” person is one who always feels the need to put others down in order to feel good.

The lesson to learn is to help others achieve their goals and to bring out the best in them. No one wants to be around someone who plays childish games and is full of negative energy!

Action Plan: Be as positive as you can around other people and bring out the best in them. You will thank me later I promise

Cheers,

bigP

Tom Brady

Author: The Godfather

Hey Guys,

I had a really interesting conversation the other day about talent, hard work, persistence and self belief. I want to share with you what I learned from this conversation and the paradigm that resulted.

Whatever your dream is, whatever you want to be or do, YOU CAN DO AND ACHIEVE ANYTHING YOU SET YOUR MIND TO.  It is so important to first have belief in your self and your abilities.

It is also critical to understand that TALENT is not special, and it certainly does not guarantee success.  There are so many talented people that it would be ignorant to see your self as special or better because of it.

The difference between the talented and the successful is hard work, persistence, determination, opportunity and belief.

The road to success is paved by hard work.  When you think of talent as special it gives you a false sense of security, thinking that you can rest on your laurels. You must understand that talent is common but hard work, real hard work, dedicating your self to your dream and working at it every day is not common.  That in its self will make the most difference.  Really committing your self to your dream and putting in that hard work to get there.  Hard work crushes talent when talent doesn’t work hard.

Persistence and determination are crucial; everyone faces adversity however it is not how many times you fall down but how many times you get back up that really counts.  If you are truly committed to your dream then nothing will stop you, if you face a road block you will find another way around to get to your ultimate destination.  This is so important, many times people give up as soon as it gets tough, but those that fight through adversity and keep fighting until they realize their dreams will achieve success.

Opportunity – What do I mean by this? Many people classify it as luck, but I believe that it is opportunity.  Opportunity comes to everyone but you must be prepared for it and act on it otherwise it will pass you by.  Opportunity waits for no man, but it is very kind to those who grab it with both hands and make use of it.  An excuse many people have is that they were unlucky or the successful people caught a lucky break which is the only reason why the successful got there and they did not.  Again it would be ignorant to believe this, Gary Player one of the greatest golfers famously said “the harder I work the luckier I get.”  This is because the harder you work the better prepared you become when opportunity knocks. Understand that opportunity is everywhere around us however, it is the prepared who grab it.

Belief, you have heard myself and bigP talking about belief a lot in our articles.  Having confidence in your self and your abilities is so important because success starts from within.  Before you can be successful externally, you must have belief and confidence in yourself.  Have the unwavering belief that you can and will achieve your goals.  That is the belief I am talking about, not I think I can do it, but I CAN AND WILL DO IT!

When I thought about the conversation I had, it was a huge realization that talent is never enough.  If you are serious and committed about your dreams then you MUST: WORK HARD, BE PERSISTENT, BE PREPARED FOR OPPORTUNITY AND HAVE UNWAVERING BELIEF IN YOUR SELF!

And it is never a sometimes thing, but an all the time thing!  You must be dedicating yourself to your dream all the time, every day if you want to be the best at anything.

The Godfather

Hey Guys,

This is a newsletter email from timothy marc founder of do something rad. I wanted to share it with you guys because i feel that it goes so well with the last post I made. Read this post I guarantee you’ll enjoy it!

I hope you enjoyed that email/post as much as I did.

Cheers,

bigP

Hey Guys,

YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE!!! For those of you that know me I am an aspiring hip hop artist. Fuck that actually… aspiring would mean that I’m trying to get there, let me correct myself, I am a hip hop artist! Society has a set of norms that most people get caught up in. I am going to inspire you to live the life of your dreams RIGHT NOW!

The fact of the matter is you only live once. There is no room for doing anything but what you love! If you have a dream or a passion thats what you need to be doing. I want you to wake up in the morning and absolutely LOVE what your doing. If you don’t love your current condition change it now!

Society teaches you: Go to school, go to university, get a job, retire at 65.

I TEACH YOU: Do what you love, live in the present moment, and enjoy every second of your life! Your life should be abundant in all aspects success, women, money etc.

I want you to write down all of your goals and what your dream life looks like right now. If you could have be or do anything (which you can) what would you? Write down all the details. This is your core purpose, this is your vision that should guide you on your journey. I want you to read this every night before you go to sleep and every morning when you wake up. While reading it visualize it as if it has already occurred and its your present reality! Stick to this for at least 30 days and you will see significant change!

“Dream as if you’ll live forever, live as if you’ll die today” – James Dean. This quote sums up my entire philosophy. As humans we have unlimited potential to do anything we want. All we need to do is burn the bridges of retreat behind us and have belief in ourself. This all comes down to self confidence. Most people are afraid of what other people think of them!

Dream as if you’ll live forever! Do what you love and what you dream of. Don’t think of the reasons why you cant just take action now. Thats what we are all about here at alpha lifestyle taking action!

Live as if you’ll die today! If you were going to die at midnight tonight what would you do? I guarantee it wouldn’t be what your currently doing! You wouldn’t be wasting a second, you would be doing what you love. WELL THATS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO EVERY DAY!

I’d love to keep writing but I’m going to record a song right now! For those of you who haven’t heard my music you can check it out at http://www.bigptoronto.com.

If you want to chat or some inspiration feel free to hit me up on twitter @bigPToronto

TAKE ACTION NOW!

Cheers,

bigP