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It’s Ben J here, and I’m hanging out with Ozzie Rios, “The Latino Gentlemen,” in our next episode of the official Alpha Lifestyle podcast dedicated to the first date. In this episode, we tackle the ignorant and whimsically derailed idea of the first date which mass media has shoved down our throats. We talk about why dinner and a movie is a terrible idea, and who should pay for the bill.
Lots of the information in here is covered by an upcoming eBook by me called, “First Date Formula,” soon to be published by ABCs of Attraction. Ozzie and I talk about some of the absolute WORST dates we’ve been on, some of the BEST dates we’ve charmed beautiful women with, and much more. If you want some more info on it, throw me a friend request on Facebook and ask me anything. I am willing to work with anyone who puts in the time and effort if they want to learn all about how to get laid on the first date.
In the standard dating and attraction boot camp curriculum I teach with Ozzie R, we talk about how one night stands aren’t really your prime source of lays. It’s actually the first date! While yes, one night stands are totally awesome and great for getting your dick wet, 90% of the time it is a logistical NIGHTMARE. She may have been the driver, or is holding the keys for someone, or maybe she’s still living with her ex-boyfriend and she’s having a girls’ night out. What if she lives on the other side of town? What if you’re visiting town and are sharing a hotel room with a buddy? LOGISTICAL NIGHTMARE! Screw the one night stand! Get her number, and get in the pants after a first date!
We don’t live in a dating society anymore. That died alongside the parachute pants era. Today, thanks to the incredulous amount of virtual connections available, we are a hangout and hookup society. People hook up after hanging out with each other, after partying, etc. Boys and girls are getting down after the first date, in fact, a recent study shows that 57% of WOMEN prefer first date sex. Crazy, right? Well it’s backed up by science, and if you’re not taking girls to the bedroom and giving them the time of their life after an incredible date experience, then you’re doing it WRONG!
In this episode, Ozzie and I joke around quite a bit as we explore just about EVERYTHING you need to know about the first date. Keep in mind that we specifically designed this podcast for intermediate and advanced students, but we highly encourage you beginners to save this podcast to your hard drive, or bookmark this page (Ctrl/Command+D) so you don’t forget to check it out.
I’ve only been living in Los Angeles for a year and after adventuring, testing, and exploring this city, and I’ve been able to get a 90% sex rate with this date. Keep in mind, I’ve kept the same basic format for this date, and it works for just about every single girl. Most of the time, I don’t even get LMR. The girl is BEGGING me to take her back to my apartment for an immediate romp in the sack. This date formula I’ve assembled has consistently gotten me laid.
We even break down the entire date from location to location. There’s no figuring out what to do here. This podcast if anything is your cheat sheet to getting laid on a date. Listen to it, follow it, do it, make the magic happen and seduce a gorgeous girl you met today! You’re probably thinking, “Oh snap, how do I do it? How do I make it happen?” Don’t fret young padawan. We know your first date skills aren’t quite up to par, so now we’re here to fix it for you.
On the ABCs of Attraction forum, I posted a quick overview of my “Infamous Gun Range” date, from head to toe with even a few tips for decorating your home and readying your man cave for a beautiful girl to come in just begging to be seduced. We also talk about environment and experience and how I use the environment with our own presence to collaboratively seduce whoever agrees to go on this fantastic date with me.
In fact, this infamous outing of mine landed me a date with a Hollywood TV celebrity, who I was able to keep in consistent contact to this very day. This long legged girl told me that my date was the most relaxed, interesting, and adventurous date she’s ever been on in her life, and she’s been on at least one hundred more dates than I have! She was sick of the fancy dinners, yachts, upscale hotels, and wanted something fun and casual.
I took her to shoot some GUNS. The adrenaline rush kicked in, she loved every second of it and had so much fun she forgot it was even a date. Screw dinner parties and expensive yachts. We did something FUN and ADVENTUROUS, and even better, I gave that girl an experience. This experience she will NEVER forget for the rest of her life. Later down the road, she told me that I have a special place in her heart and she’s going to love me forever. When I look back at it, I’m always going to have a special place for her too, and it’s not just in the bedroom 
Ozzie talks about one of his very best dates where he takes a girl hiking, and fools around with her on the hiking trail. We also solve the dilemma of, “who pays for what?” We’ve laid out the entire framework from start to finish, and best of all, the podcast is entirely FREE! Plus, get a sneak peek at my new ebook coming out on first dates. We have all of the answers for you in this week’s Alpha Lifestyle Official Podcast.
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